There is no requirement for healthy sexual development that young people grow up heterosexual, vanilla or committed to monogamy. We can think about entertainment media in a different way. Entertainment provides a good guide to what the majority of citizens think is acceptable sexually. It should not be surprising, for example, that a nationally representative survey of Australians found that 85% of citizens agree with the statement ‘Sex before marriage is acceptable’. Around 15% of Australians have engaged in anal play. Perhaps from entertainment we can learn that the majority of Australians think that fun is an important part of sex. How can we integrate that perspective into our own work?