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Do we de-sex for the school? Polyparents negotiating their sexual relationships and their children’s schooling.

Do we de-sex for the school? Polyparents negotiating their sexual relationships and their children’s schooling.

Through the use of both quantitative and qualitative data from Australian and United States research, this paper explores polyamorous parenting in relation to schooling. In particular, this paper will focus on how polyparents negotiate the implications of heteronormative monogamy/coupledom as defined and upheld through the educational systems their children are attending. The research shows that polyparents are extremely reluctant to disclose their family structure to school officials, student welfare workers, teachers and other parents in school communities. There appear to be two major barriers to disclosure: a) the fear of legal/student welfare interventions, and b) social stigmatization and harassment of themselves and their children. 

The parents discuss how the above reactions to their family structure are largely based on assumptions and stereotypes in regard to the sexual behaviours of the adults in the polyfamily households, such as the adults having sex in front of the children, children being at risk of sexual abuse, and that the sexual activities of polyamorous adults are ‘deviant” and “unhealthy”, therefore not modelling “healthy” and “normal” sex to their children. Another dimension to be discussed is the impact of these stereotypes on the children themselves, and the decisions parents make in coming out or closeting their sexual relationships to their own children, given that the children are then implicated in keeping their parents’ secrets or selectively telling school friends and teachers. The paper will also explore the strategies that some polyparents adopt in disclosing their families to schools, and indeed resisting or preventing such negative stereotyping and subsequent negative reactions from the school.

Conference: ASSERT 2012

Australian Society of Sex Educators Researchers and Therapists 2012

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Research indicates that the escalation of erectile dysfunction in youthful men can be attributed to excessive Internet pornography use. Usage through adolescence and early adulthood, when the brain is at its peak of neuroplasticity and Dopamine levels are at their highest, creates an environment of increased vulnerability to addiction. Excessive use rewires the brain and interferes with the circuits involved in natural satiation mechanisms, resulting in numbed pleasure responses. Some researchers claim that the Internet’s unending novelty gives pornography the potential to become more addictive than drugs, food and gambling.

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This study responds to significant issues related to the problematic nature of perceptions of sexuality in Australian society. It also explores the extent to which the students’ view of sexuality can be influenced through a sexuality education program delivered at tertiary level. An investigation of the literature, comprehensive interviews and feedback from students identified the factors which form the perceptions of sexuality that students have by the time they reach young adulthood and enter the sexology class. The study supports the considerable body of anecdotal evidence that has been gathered over thirty years in the award winning Department of Sexology at Curtin University.

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A growing body of research about young people in friends-with-benefits relationships (FWBR) describes a largely college-based population enjoying casual sexual relationships that are an interim, convenient measure until they are ready for something more permanent. Little is known about the way baby boomers are adapting FWBR for their relationship needs in midlife. A FWBR is defined as one where people have repeated or ongoing sexual encounters, do not consider themselves to be a couple, but are friends.

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