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Shifting patterns of intimacy in the therapeutic relationship

Shifting patterns of intimacy in the therapeutic relationship

Forming a therapeutic alliance is considered useful at the beginning of every therapy. We may or may not consider this a form of intimate engagement. This conversation is about exploring our different notions and practices of intimacy within the ethical boundaries of psychotherapy.

Questions we may wish to consider are: What is intimate/non-intimate? How does this experience unfold in the course of a therapy? Where and why are there boundaries? What is ‘Wrong’ with touching, holding or hugging your patient/client? Is there a ‘slippery slope’? Is it possible to be professional and intimate all at the same time?

Conference: Demo
Areas of Interest / Categories: Intimacy, Psychotherapy


The Fruits of Coherent Companionship: Shared Stories and Gifts from the “Pilgrim” Roads

Dreaming as Worldview – Becoming Emotionally Connected in the New Millennium

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A differentiated way of working with sex, intimacy and the fragility of life and how practitioners respond to working with couples regardless of gender

Do your clients dream about a relationship in harmonious balance between the personal and the interpersonal, between the sexual and the intimate? Just as dreams tantalise us with a surreal and metaphoric view of reality so too do relationships challenge people to recognise how they know their partners, how their partners know them and to differentiate one from the other and themselves from the other person. Relationships have their own surrealistic lens through which people can conflate different aspects. Sometimes, we as practitioners find ourselves working with the intimate and sexual aspects of our client's relationship where we, like our clients, can confuse one for the other. Yet, a relationship can be experienced as the harmonious intersection of both intimate and sexual aspects that leads to a creative expression of human passion and to a transcendent experience of the human condition. By nature, many practitioners are more prepared to enquire into the aspect of intimacy more than the other aspect of sexuality. 

The impact of Trauma on a Couple Relationship

Many couples present to a session wanting help because of a lack of connection and intimacy with each other. When a traumatic incident has occurred, working through intimacy issues can be more complex and overwhelming for the couple and Therapist alike. At times there can be a dynamic where one person in the couple has higher needs in response to the trauma. Sessions can become easily unbalanced and neutrality can be difficult to maintain. 

The link between intimacy and sexual activity in long-term relationships - The moderating effects of gender and attachment style

The role of intimacy in the sexual experience and behaviour of men and women living in steady relationships is considered important in several theoretical accounts (e.g., (Schnarch, 1991), specifically in models of female sexual functioning (Basson, 2000), indicating an important role of gender in this respect. Empirical research into the causal and directional association of partners’ experienced levels of emotional intimacy and their sexual activity (both partnered and individual) is scarce. Therefore, it is unclear whether intimacy and sexual activity function as a cause or as an effect within this association. A circular process can also be hypothesized to exist here. Studies on intimacy and sexual behaviour have thus far been either cross-sectional or experimental. 

Helping older men who have sexual problems

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