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Shame and Belonging

Shame and Belonging

One of the greatest strengths of the Gestalt model is its relational, intersubjective understanding of people and their development.  In this video, Robert Lee explores three aspects that are central to the Gestalt way of understanding/diagnosing, interacting with/treating clients and being with people in general .
1) a Field Perspective that is interested in both the individual and the interactive connection with his/her surround, which therapists are part of, 2) Shame and Belonging as regulators of the field, and 3) Experiment as a way to respectfully hold and explore our and others’ perceptions in and of the field.  He uses examples from his clinical experience to illustrate these concepts.
 
Conference: Demo
Areas of Interest / Categories: Shame

Shame

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